12.22.2010

November 2010 Photo Roundup

Here is my collection of photos from November 2010:

The first weekend of November was Mona's Birthday (11/5) and Sigma Omega Nu's 14th Anniversary (11/6). I drove up to SLO for the weekend with Alma, Yvonne, and Evelyn to participate in the festivities.

Me and my big sis before heading out to Native Lounge for Mona's Birthday Party

The "old, married ladies"

Me and the birthday girl

Sonya, Evy, and I went in on a bottle of champagne for Mona's 27th

I think she liked her present

Cheers to the birthday girl

Founder's Day Activities with the pledges from Founding Chapter and Kappa Colony

This is my team during the relay races

The last part of the relay race was "Suck and Blow"

Team 4 WON!! (Me, Clary, Adriana, Brenda, Krista, Natali, Brenda R., and Brenda A.)

The next activity was Tug 'o' War: Sisters versus Pledges

In the first round, the sisters totally owned the pledges. Poor Krista slipped and fell on the pledges' side!

Go, sisters, go! Of course, the sisters won!

Night 2: We all went out to Downtown Brew

Me and my dirty martini

Alma and me

The end of the night--all the sisters celebrating 14 years of SON sisterhood at Cal Poly, SLO

Yvonne and I in front of Bubble Gum Alley

Tanya visited from New York the next weekend. Here we are at Loaded Rock Bar in Hollywood

Emily, Tanya, and me out in Hollywood

The night before Thanksgiving, we went out to celebrate Matt Bench's birthday . . . the bars were insanely crowded, so we ended up going back to Jenn and Barry's house

Tiffanee, Matt, Barry, and Fernando

Me and my extended Pacific Sales family

Fernando cooked the turkey on Thanksgiving at my parents' house

My plate on Turkey Day--yummy!

On November 27, Fernando and I went to see Weezer at the Gibson Amphiteatre. We had dinner at Karl Strauss Brewing Co. first.

Of course, we both had to get the beer sampler

Weezer performed Pinkerton in its entirety! So boss.

~LOVE~

12.21.2010

October 2010 Photo Roundup

And now, a bunch of pictures from October 2010:

Christine's Birthday Party at The Rockwell VT

Our 4th Anniversary - 10/21/10

Fernando and his brothers: Ryan (left) and Meno (right)

Bryan and his adorable girlfriend, Ro

Meno helped to open a Mexican restaurant in Germany--he cooked this for us: Pineapple chicken, Mexican rice, and refried kidney beans

Fusion 2010: All the pledges on line from all the chapters

Fusion Afterparty--my family tree: Grand Big Sis Roani, Big Sis Evy, me, and my little sis, Irais

I love this pic of my CSUN baby, Xenia

Love my CSUN Little Sis, Susan

With another of my CSUN pledge-babies, Scarlett

These pictures are from the Dia de Los Muertos Celebration at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery on 10/30/10

I took a ton of pictures, these are just my favorite displays

Mom and Dad in front of an "eternal wedding" display

This display was amazing, all those skulls are hand-painted!

This one got second place--$2000. We hope to enter the contest next year

Pumpkin carving on Halloween with Jenn and Barry

I was a "devil in a blue dress"

All of our pumpkins!

Halloween 2010: The Official Couple Picture

Barry and Jenn with their expertly carved pumpkin

I changed into something a little warmer to hand out candy at home

Our candy bowl--lots of choices for the kids!

Our pumpkins, lit up in front of our house

~LOVE~


12.10.2010

Our Holiday Card for 2010

Retro Snowflakes Christmas
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11.20.2010

Changes

I realize that I haven't updated for over three months. That usually just means I'm very busy, which is the truth.

I'm working both as a nanny and a tutor. I watch the kid three days a week and tutor my 9th grader a few nights a week.

I'm taking three classes. One meets every other Monday. The second meets every Tuesday, and the third meets every Thursday. I'm keeping up with assignments and papers and expect to get all 'As' again this Fall semester.

I'm also interning at Los Angeles Pierce Community College in the Honors Program office two days a week as part of my graduate school program. I need to complete 150 hours by the end of the semester.

Even though I'm not getting paid a dime for my work at Pierce, I am absolutely in love with the work I'm doing there. I get to meet individually with students and help them develop transfer plans. Most of them want to go to UCLA or CSUN, so I help them navigate the complicated process of picking a major, completing their major prep, keeping their grades up, fulfilling their IGETC requirements, and filling out the application. My background in English has been invaluable in helping them edit their personal statements for the UCs. I've led workshops and I'm co-leading a "Pierce to UCLA Transfer Support Group." I never really thought that I would like academic counseling because it seemed so straight-forward, but at the community college level it is anything but straight-forward. The variety of students is great--they are all in different stages of life; some work full time, some have children, some are married, some are still in high school, etc. The racial and ethnic diversity at the Pierce campus is also refreshing and valuable experience for me. I can honestly say that working at a community college as an academic counselor would be a dream job for me.

The other big news around the Vasquez household is that Fernando got a new job. He left his job as a plumbing salesperson at the Valencia Pacific Sales to take a position as an Assistant Buyer of Plumbing at the Pacific Sales corporate office in Torrance. While this means a significant raise for him, he is also committing to a significant commute to Torrance 5 days a week. It's close to 2 hours of driving each way! He carpools almost every single day, which eases the strain of driving so much and the cost of gas, but he is working under the assumption that after I graduate with my Master's degree in May, we'll be moving closer to Torrance.

The notion of moving to Orange County carries with it many possibilities, but it also comes with problems. The benefits are that Fernando will be closer to his job, and if he lives closer, he'll more likely be able to "climb the corporate ladder" at Pacific Sales. If we live in Orange County, we'll also be closer to Fernando's sister, Melissa. The cons are that we'll be moving away from our parents and most of our family here in Santa Clarita. We'll also have to figure out how to sell our house and find a new home in Orange County. I'll lose all my tutoring and nannying jobs/contacts. While I do hope to find a job that will utilize my new degree, I was hoping to lean on my part-time tutoring and nannying jobs to carry me while I go through the job search process. The market for counseling jobs is really tough.

It seems like there are more cons than pros in this situation, but the truth is that Fernando makes the significant percentage of our income, so moving closer to his work makes more sense. There are many, many schools I can work at in Orange County, and finding a home somewhere in between my job and Fernando's job would be ideal. I'm already poking around job listing websites and getting my resume up to snuff for the job search process. I want to seriously start looking for a job in March--after I take the comprehensive exam required for completion of my Master's, but a few months before graduation.

Thinking about all these upcoming changes kinda gets my head spinning, though, so I'm mostly focusing on completing my internship hours and finishing out my semester strong. My last day of class is on December 16, and then I have more than a month of winter break before Spring semester starts on January 24th. My last semester should be pretty easy, since I'm only taking two classes and doing my second internship at the Multicultural Office at California Lutheran University. I plan to double up my class days with my internship days to ease the commute out to Thousand Oaks. I'm going to continue to nanny for the kid and tutor my ninth grader next semester as well.

I am very much looking forward to the holiday season, although this year will be different without Vincent. We'll all have to work a little harder this year to be merry and bright, but being together will make it bearable.

~LOVE~

8.16.2010

Our Little Bit of Summer

I'm in a totally different place right now than I was when I last wrote. Well, technically I'm in the same exact place, but I meant metaphorically. Summer school is over and I just confirmed that I had another 4.0 semester! I can't believe that I'm more than halfway done with my graduate school career. It's so strange to think that almost exactly a year ago I was just about to start grad school. I had just quit my full-time job, I was scrambling to get my financial aid in order, and I was anxiously awaiting the start of my new life. Now I'm working part-time and going to school full-time, and I'll be starting my first internship at Pierce College in less than a month. I'm really excited to see how this next school year goes. Even though thinking about scheduling 150 hours at my internship, 30-35 hours of "work" per weeks (tutoring and nannying), and three classes into my Fall semester is daunting, I'm super excited about staying busy. It will make the time go by quickly.

I'm enjoying my "summer vacation" right now. I have a month off from school before Fall semester starts again on September 2nd. Even though I'm still working, it makes a huge difference to have my evenings free. I've been watching movies, reading books, gardening, and playing with out new pet . . .That's right--we adopted a dog. She's a 5-year-old Border Collie/Australian Shepard mix that we adopted from the shelter. Because she is a working dog, we wanted to give her a "country" name. After a couple days of debating, we decided to name her "August." Her name at the shelter was "Duchess," so "August" sounds very similar. She's really smart--she already knows "sit," "lie down," "high five," and "stay." She also loves chasing tennis balls. She's been good on her leash so far, but she is very protective around other dogs.

She's a little spooky around men--it takes her a couple minutes to warm up to them, but she is very friendly around women and children. It might be awhile before we can take her to a dog park since she growls at other dogs. She might just be adjusting to her new environment and having a home and owners to protect. We know very little about her past, but when we got her she was COVERED in mats. It took three days of brushing, combing, and bathing, but she finally looks (and smells) good. She has chosen me as her favorite and she follows me around the house like a big cat. The other plus is she has shown very little interest in our chinchilla. We're able to keep Chipotle in her place of honor in the computer room and the dog doesn't bother her at all. We took August to the vet the day after we got her home and she has kennel cough. She's on antibiotics, but she's a little sneezy/wheezy still. Hopefully, she'll be feeling better soon.

I love having a dog around the house. She brings so much more purpose to our lives. Feeding her, grooming her, playing with her, and walking her keep both of us more active and conscious. And having a softly snoring dog in the room just brings a sense of peace when I'm alone--watching TV or reading or sipping coffee on the patio. Even though she is a bit "older," I think we still have many happy years with her ahead of us. Miss August Vasquez--our little bit of Summer.

On her ride home from the shelter

Her first night--kinda nervous

Day 3: Happy Dog

Her favorite toy so far

I love my new doggie!!
~LOVE~

7.10.2010

Summer School Stress

I generally don't get stressed when it comes to school, but summer school is currently kicking my butt. I knew that my life was going to be crazy for the seven weeks of summer school. Cramming a full semester's worth of class, papers, projects, reading, and presentations into seven weeks was a hefty decision to make, but I made it. My summer session is literally more than half over, but I've only completed about 30-40% of the work left to do. Coupled with stress over finances due to my lack of work, I'm feeling a little bit like I'm barely holding my head out of rushing river water.

That being said, I've found that writing about my stress and making to-do lists helps me to conquer my stress. So this entry mostly serves a purpose for me, but you're welcome to read it and maybe leave a note of encouragement.

Schoolwork I still need to accomplish . . .

EDCG 523: Group Process and Leadership
7/13/10--Read Chapter 9
7/15/10--Read Chapters 10 + 11
7/20/10--Co-lead group
7/22/10--Turn in Structured Group Plan Paper (~13 pages); Present to class my Group Plan
7/29/10--Turn in Journal Summary Paper (~4-5 pages) + Turn in Take-Home Final

EDCG 527: Educational and Career Planning
7/13/10--Read Chapter 16 + 17
7/15/10--Read Chapter 18
7/20/10--Visit College of the Canyons Career Center to observe and interview a career counselor at work; Read Chapters 10 + 11
7/22/10--Read Chapters 13 + 14; Presentation in class about Chapter 14 (~10 minutes); Turn in Career Office Visit Report Paper (~3-5 pages); Turn in Career Notebook Final Project
7/27/10--In-class Final Exam

EDCG 583: Professional Development in Practice
7/14/10--In-class Presentation on Association of College Unions International Communities of Practice (~15 minute presentation)
7/28/10--Turn in paper regarding my thoughts and impressions about Association of College Unions International's Professional Development National Conferences (page requirement not specified)

It is definitely a little overwhelming to look at all this work I still need to do and I'm doing my best to utilize my weekends and other free time to get head-starts on as much as possible. I've finished my preparations for my presentation this Wednesday--I just have to do the actual presentation. Today I'm trying to begin my paper on the Structured Group Plan. I think I'm going to create a plan for a Multi-Cultural Student Support Group using Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo as my theoretical student population. I get a lot of reading done while working--either in the mornings when Chelsea is still asleep, or in the afternoons when she is napping. I hope to continue that trend for the next couple of weeks. Next weekend, I will have to finish my Group Plan paper, put together my Career Notebook, Create my Chapter 14 presentation, and at least begin working on my paper about ACUI's National Conferences. I think I'm going to be a shut-in for that entire weekend, plus most of the weekend after that. Please send good vibes my way . . .

~LOVE~